After seeing Mike Tyson getting arrested on the news, I asked my dad what “rape” was, and he told me it meant “hurting a girl”. So you can picture 7-8 year old me, running to the teacher to say stuff like “Teacher, come! Jack, John and George are raping Molly on the playground!”, or threating my classmates with rape if they were annoying me (boys included, cos I thought this way I was also insulting them by calling them “girls”). I don’t remember my teacher’s exact words but she did say something to me about it.