Yesterday I walked up to a girl and started chatting, she instantly showed interested. She was gorgeous, but told me shot got vaccinated (she didn’t even know with which one, sigh). I told her I wasn’t and quickly went my way.

Before I had a similar situation with a girl who wanted to make out, but as I moved in closer I asked and sure enough she got it, so I quickly backed off, leaving her confused.

Another girl who actually got both Pfizer and Sinovac came to stand close to me to exchange contacts, and I found myself leaning away from her, I didn’t tell her why.

Dating has always been tricky if you’re not among the top attractive men in your dating pool, but with the vaccine that pool has been reduced to scraps. I’ve met a few unvaccinated women, but then it’s still a hassle of finding someone to your taste.

And I’ve heard from unvaccinated women how frustrated vaccinated men get when they reject them without explanation, or if they tell them why. And how plenty of men will also lie that they didn’t get, or “just one shot”, or be kind enough to virtue signal their vaccination loud and clear on dating apps.

I see two solutions, the first is dating in unvaccinated countries. I did so in Tanzania early this year when no one got the vax there, but now they’re vaccinating as well so I fear that venue is quickly closing. The rest of Africa I don’t find as inviting.

The second option is to look for the needle in the haystack. If say only 5 people out of a 100 are unvaccinated, well then it becomes pretty easy to find a partner because there are so few. Especially as a man the odds greatly improve, because women are more selective, but now you’ll be 1 out of 2 or 3 that she can choose from, instead of competing with 49 other guys.

To this effect I’ve started to wear indications in public that I’m unvaccinated (a subtle “unvaccinated” inscription that I can bring up in conversation, and I plan to start carrying an obvious “pureblooded” tag, which most vaccinated will assume is related to Harry Potter so backlash will be limited, but draw strong attention from any unvaccinated people). Then it becomes a game of chance of running into the right person, but as an anti-vaxxer man an anti-vaxxer woman will by default hold a place in my heart for having the brains and personality to reject vaxcism, so I like my odds.