If you cheated, yeah ok you broke someone’s trust. Big deal, we’re selfish creatures. The main reason we care about other people is that it’ll affect how we feel. By cheating, at least you took what you wanted. And at the same time, by trying to conceal it you attempt to make your partner feel better. If they never find out, it’s a hell of a lot better for them than if you broke up. Maybe the “love” isn’t real, but give me a break. Relationships are just evolutionary constructs to give some feelings of companionship, and you rub your genitals to release dopamine. Give me a break.
Then there’s people who think cheaters are horrible people. Wow, you’re so loyal, your morals are so much superior because you’ve never cheated. Please. I eat meat, but so do you. You kill who knows how many animals every year just to satisfy your taste buds. Yeah, but cheating once by mushing your genitals with someone else is *so* much worse than repeated murder. People who cheat are no worse than you. In fact, at least unremorseful cheaters are consistent in their belief system. They know what they do only has selfish motivations, and unlike most people they’re able to actually admit it.