People (boys really) will use “women ☕” when they think that a woman is acting crazy or out of line. The issue is that 80% of the time, it’s just used to dismiss legitimate issues that women go through and perpetuates a gender-war that is frankly blown out and ridiculous.
In my personal experience, this is a common phrase for teenage or YA boys who have very little dating experience, are hooked on the Andrew Tate copium, and who lack empathy and/or emotional intelligence. (Sometimes it’s also a communication issue, in which they don’t know how to address the issue at hand so they just resort people’s experiences to them being overdramatic.)
This has also spurred the less-popular “men ☕” comment that can be found in women-dominated communities.